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He Picked You!!


Are you filled with anticipation today for the excitement that awaits you?

Perhaps suspecting surprises of flowers or candy or even a sparkly something on this special day?


Is today tough for you? Is it a day that reminds you of being alone…taking you back to your grade school and junior high days when you stood in a line waiting to be picked? You waited and waited as others were chosen, whispering to yourself each time, “pick me! pick me!”

Fast forward to adulthood as you look around and see others picked to fall in love while you’re still saying, “pick me”. It can be a hard way to spend the day.

I have good news for you…someone DID pick you!

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For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. John 3:16-17

Is this verse too generic for you? Let’s try it a different way. Read the verse out loud and say your name each time there is a blank:

For God so loved ____ that He gave his one and only Son, that because _____ believes in Him _____ shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn ______, but to save the world through Him. John 3:16-17

You were chosen to be you – uniquely you and loved by an amazing God. He has wonderful plans for you whether or not you have a sweetheart to spend Valentine’s Day with. I understand the pain of being without an earthly love/significant other who loves you, dotes on you and can’t wait to spend time with you. I still desire that.

But one thing I know for sure. The love of other human’s will fail. They will disappoint us. They will anger us. Some day they may leave us (at least for a time) through death.

Not so the love of God. The apostle Paul put it this way:

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39

God’s love isn’t always easy to comprehend on human terms. But if you reach out for Him, He will reach in and change your life in wonderful ways.

Even if you’ve known Him for years, come to know Him in a new, deeper way this Valentine’s Day.

Today, may the unending love of Jesus wrap you in a hug deeper than you’ve ever experienced before.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

blessings and peace,

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I Resolve

Well, here we are at the end of the first week of a new year. It’s funny how we measure our lives in years – from January to December or from birthday to birthday. It’s good to have measuring sticks so long as we don’t hang our every hope on them.


There was much in 2017 I hoped to accomplish but didn’t make it to my goal. I look back and see that some of those goals were unrealistic and some I made progress on but didn’t conquer completely. I often get to the start of a new year beating myself up for those things. As I was praying at the start of 2018 I was reminded of this verse:

Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”
                                                                                                                  Isaiah 43:18-19

After reading & meditating on this verse I decided this year will be different. This year I am going to examine those things in 2017 that weren’t what I hoped, then use them as stepping-stones. I’m going to put them behind me and look ahead at what the Lord desires to do in me and through my life in the year ahead. Then I’m going to step out in faith, believing I CAN in His strength and wisdom.

As each year passes I find that much of life is a choice. Circumstances will happen to us but how we will respond is our choice. We will sometimes struggle and won’t always choose the best way but we can learn from those experiences and choose differently the next time.

Most years I don’t make resolutions but I set goals. This year I am going to do both. I’ll share more on the goals in a later post but I wanted to share my resolutions with you now.

In 2018 I resolve:

  • To choose to see the best in others even when I have to look past perceived faults.
  • To choose peace and joy in the midst of life’s puzzle, grounding myself in the truth of God’s promises even when I can’t understand how the pieces fit within the circumstances around me.
  • To believe in the person God made me to be without doubt or compromise and to help others do the same.

What are your hopes and dreams for the new year ahead? Leave a comment below and I’ll pray for you!

Join me in resolving to believe in your dreams and make them happen!


Blessings and peace to you in this new year!

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In his name the nations will put their hope. Matthew 12:21

Tomorrow is New Year’s Eve. The world will be filled with hope and anticipation of what lies ahead in 2018. Resolutions will be made and joy will ring out all over the world.

There aren’t too many times when the world comes together to agree in hope but New Year’s is one of those times. Somehow if only for a few moments most of us can set aside our cares and concerns and look ahead with hope. We believe that good can outweigh evil and that this brand new year will bring better times than the year behind.

Sadly the hope of New Year’s is often short-lived. The news will report stories of sadness and tragedy that occurred while we were asleep. Our hopes can easily be dashed if they are placed in the things of this earth.

Thankfully Jesus came to give us hope that the world can’t take away. When we trust in Jesus as our Savior and Lord we have the hope of eternal life. Regardless of what this world throws at us we know that Heaven is our forever home and we live in hopeful assurance of that day.

The hope that Jesus brings can also be ours each day. When we choose to look for the good things of this world instead of allowing the bad to weigh us down we hold onto hope. This is my prayer for each of us as the new year dawns. Hope.

Happy New Year!


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“The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).  Matthew 1:23

Have you had enough of Christmas yet? I love Christmas and almost all that comes with it but as an introvert I will admit that once in awhile throughout the holiday I just want to be left alone! For me some of the activities, parties and shopping among crowds can be overwhelming. I need some space to regroup and move forward.


Jesus came to earth to be Immanuel, God with us. It has been said that Jesus is God with skin on. God became man, born of a woman and raised by imperfect parents. He knows the struggles we face and the sorrows we bear and loves us in spite of those struggles and imperfections.

When we argue with another person sometimes one or the other walks away from the argument. Sadly sometimes people walk away from relationships all together. There is no chance to explain or reconcile.

I am so thankful that Jesus is not like this! He is with us and will always be. While he doesn’t love our sin He continues to love us in spite of our sin. If we turn our back on Him Jesus will always be there waiting for us to turn back to Him.

Most of us know the story of the prodigal son who walked away from home and squandered his inheritance. When he hit bottom and had been left all alone by his friends he turned back to the one he had left. He went home.

The prodigal son was welcomed home by his father, not grudgingly or as a servant but with fanfare and rejoicing because his son was home. This is a picture of how Jesus feels when we turn back after being away for a time. He will always have arms outstretched waiting for our return.

I am thankful that if there are times when I’m angry at God or disappointed by His decision I don’t have to worry that I will be left alone. He will give me the space I desire, but will keep after me until I turn back to His welcoming arms.

I praise God that He sent Jesus to be Immanuel, God with us!



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 “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?”
Peter answered, “God’s Messiah.” Luke 9:20

Have you ever waited so long for something to happen that when it actually does it’s difficult for you to believe? I remember feeling that way about Christmas as a little girl. I would wait and wait, feeling like Christmas Eve would never arrive. When it did I would hang my stocking and go off to bed, lying awake wondering if it really was going to be Christmas when I woke up.

It seems like that’s how some of the Jewish people felt about the coming of the Messiah. They had been expecting Him for generations. Each probably wondered if they would see Him in their lifetime. When Jesus did come people found it hard to believe He was the promised Messiah. I think some people had a set of criteria the Messiah would meet when He came. Perhaps they thought He would come as a mighty warrior or a king would turn out to be the Messiah. Certainly they thought there would be an announcement of sorts from Heaven.


Jesus came without any fanfare. There was an announcement to the shepherds but certainly that couldn’t count. Who were they to have the promised Messiah revealed to them?

One who had no trouble believing was Simeon. He had been promised to see the Messiah before his death. As an old man in the temple that day when Mary and Joseph brought baby Jesus to be dedicated Simeon spoke these words:

“Sovereign Lord, as you have promised,
you may now dismiss
your servant in peace.
For my eyes have seen your salvation,
which you have prepared in the sight of all nations:
a light for revelation to the Gentiles,
and the glory of your people Israel.”

I imagine Simeon went and told everyone he encountered of the special birth and the Messiah who had come to save them from their sins.

Although Christmas is over don’t stop spreading the good news of the baby born to set us free from our sins. Let others know that the Messiah came and remains with us today.


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For to us a child is born, to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called Wonderful Counselor,
Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.     Isaiah 9:6

A poignant Christmas carol is “I Heard The Bells on Christmas Day” based on a poem entitled “Christmas Bells” written by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow during the Civil War. The words to some of the refrains are here:

I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old, familiar carols play,

and wild and sweet

The words repeat

Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

 And in despair I bowed my head;
“There is no peace on earth,” I said;

“For hate is strong,

And mocks the song

Of peace on earth, good-will to men!”

 Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
“God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;

The Wrong shall fail,

The Right prevail,

With peace on earth, good-will to men.”


Our world is filled with sorrow and strife and sometimes it seems that peace is so far away. As a new year dawns in just a few days we know that troubles will come along with the joys and successes that lay ahead. Longfellow’s poem reminds us that those feelings are not unique to our time. Throughout history there has been a heaviness of evil in this world.

The good news? We have One who fights for us who is the Prince of Peace! One day Jesus will come back, not as an infant in a manger but as a mighty warrior who will bring peace to every man, woman and child who trusts in Him.

This peace is also available today to anyone who seeks it. We are reminded in Ephesians 2:14 “For He himself is our peace…” When we ask and believe Jesus will instill in us a peace that cannot be explained by earthly standards. In the midst of tumult we can have peace in our hearts from the One who loves us, shepherds us and calms us through any storm.

As the new year approaches spend some time seeking the peace Jesus offers and ask Him to remind you throughout the year that He is there waiting to let that peace rule in our hearts through trust in Him.


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For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father…     Isaiah 9:6

There is nothing like the love of a good father towards his children. It is so sweet to watch the cycle of a father with his child through the years. Watching the first time he holds his newborn, then holds his child’s hand to keep them safe, holding his daughter’s arm as he walks her down the aisle to her groom, then one day to watch the circle completed as the child holds the father’s hand as they say their final good-byes. I was blessed to have a loving, Godly father and saying “good-bye for now” to him was hardest thing I’ve had to do so far in my life.


I read a wonderful commentary on Jesus as Everlasting Father by Pastor David Sunday on the Gospel Coalition website.

Jesus, your Everlasting Father, came down at Christmas into a broken and sinful world to fill our hearts with heaven’s love, and to teach us how to love one another. He came to make sons and daughters out of his enemies. This is the Father’s gift to us at Christmas. 

 How comforting it is to read, “His name shall be called . . . Everlasting Father” (Isa. 9:6). Once we become a child of Christ’s, we are his and he is ours forever. Forever. There will be no goodbyes with him. Nothing in all creation will be able to separate us from his love. Not even death itself—indeed, it will only draw us nearer. 

Earthly relationships can be challenging. There are times of trial in every relationship on earth but hopefully more times of joy than sorry. Christmas can sometimes heighten both the good and bad times of relationship with our families. On this day after Christmas you may be experiencing a range of emotions and a mixture of memories.

Take some time in the quiet of your heart to reflect, let go of any Christmas let-down and focus on the Everlasting Father who is here for you today and throughout eternity.